• About
  • NEW Digital Handwriting Workshop
    • How to Teach Handwriting to Kids VIDEO
    • Printable Handwriting Handouts
    • Handwriting Letter Progression
  • SHOP
  • Want online therapy services?

Kids Play Smarter

Maximizing your child's play with purposeful activities

  • Fine Motor Activities
  • Gross Motor Activities
  • Handwriting Help
  • Sensory Regulation
  • Therapist’s Tips
You are here: Home / Handwriting Help / Teaching Kids Pencil Grasp

Teaching Kids Pencil Grasp

November 30, 2016 by Amy Smith

Pencil grasps can be a difficult concept for kids to master.  Pencil grasps require hand strength, motor planning and coordination, plus a little instruction along the way.  Give your kids an advantage when teaching them pencil grasp with these simple yet effective techniques.

Teach your kids how to hold a pencil properly with these simple tips that make writing easier for your kids!

 

1.Explain “stop” and “go” fingers- Make the analogy of a stop light to your child’s fingers when holding a pencil.   The “go” fingers (thumb, index, and middle) get to “go” for a ride on the pencil, while the “stop” fingers (ring finger and pinky) get tucked into the palm instead.

 

Teaching Kids Pencil Grasp

 

2. Put a green dot on their “go” fingers and a red dot on the “stop” fingers-  Visual cues can be so helpful for kids so they can truly see what’s being explained to them.  Put a green dot on your child’s “go” fingers (thumb, index, and middle) where those fingers are supposed to hold the pencil.  Note- I put the green dot on the side pad of the middle finger because the pencil rests there rather than on the fingertip. 

 

Teaching Kids Pencil Grasp

 

3. Draw a line around the bottom of the pencil- Make a visual cue on the pencil by drawing a green ring around the part where the two colors meet). Have the child match the green dots on their “go” fingers to the green line on the pencil for correct positioning.

Teaching Kids Pencil Grasp

 

4. Place a sticker on the pencil- Accentuate the visual cue on the pencil by wrapping a sticker just above the sharpened portion of the pencil  so the child can hold it in the correct position. If possible, use a green sticker to match the green “go” fingers.

 

teaching-kids-pencil-grasp-colored-sticker-edited

 

5. Play the pencil pick up game- As with anything, practice makes perfect.  Practice pencil grasp with this fun game in order to keep your child’s interest.  Check out the video on how to play…..

6. Build hand strength through play activities- You cannot hold a pencil correctly without adequate hand strength.  So, work on building hand strength by PLAYING!  Do the monkey bars, climb on a playground, play tug-of-war, build something with Play Doh, etc… to increase hand strength so that your child will be able to hold the pencil properly.

tug-of-war

7. Broken crayon trick- Break a crayon in half so that only 3 fingers can grasp it, to improve pencil grasp. Find out more about this trick and the developmental grasp pattern of kids as they grow in this article.

 

broken-crayons-revised-fi

Please don’t delay in teaching your child about pencil grasp.  Bad habits are easy to form and very difficult to break, especially in terms of handwriting.   So use these tips to teach your child the “write” way to hold a pencil before they get into poor habits!


Share this:

  • Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window)
  • Click to share on Pinterest (Opens in new window)
  • Click to email a link to a friend (Opens in new window)

Related

Filed Under: Fine Motor Activities, Handwriting Help Tagged With: handwriting skills, learning activities, pencil grasp

Disclaimer

Kids Play Smarter is a blog about general ideas, theories, and concepts related to the field of occupational therapy and the growth and development of all children. The information presented on this blog is not intended to serve as or replace occupational therapy services for your child. The information on this blog is for entertainment, informational, and educational purposes only. This blog is not meant to replace formal professional consultation or evaluation from a qualified clinician. All children need to have the approval of a physician to participate in physical activities, including those described on this blog. In addition, children need to be supervised by a responsible adult at ALL times when completing activities that are illustrated and described on this blog. The author of this blog is NOT responsible or liable for any damage, injury, accident, illness, death, or adverse reaction due to participation in the activities described on the website.

Comments

  1. BSheer says

    February 13, 2017 at 4:52 pm

    I have so many parents (and coworkers) who do not feel it’s that important. I hear, “oh my grip is terrible too, and I’m fine.” I’ve tried explaining about finger strength and fatigue, etc., but no one wants to take the matter seriously. Any advice?

    • Amy SmithAmy Smith says

      February 14, 2017 at 2:55 am

      I have had similar experiences too. I usually say that grip will come into play moreso when the writing demands grow such as with longer writing assignments and quicker writing pace. Thanks for reading!

  2. Merry says

    July 18, 2017 at 12:19 pm

    I appreciate the ideas here – I’m currently working with my 4 year old on handwriting. However, I admit to feeling like alternate grips can work, as I always used a different one and have (in my modest opinion) quite pretty handwriting, and have always been able to write quickly, legibly, and without tiring – I also prefer handwriting to typing and completed all degrees in the days before laptops were the norm. I rest the pencil on my ring finger – it has always done so! I can also write with the 3 finger grip, but have always found the other more comfortable and I seem to write with more ease and speed. So I’m a little indifferent to forcing my daughter if she feels more comfortable in another position.

    • Amy SmithAmy Smith says

      July 20, 2017 at 1:30 am

      Absolutely! I agree that its about functionality so if it works for you then that’s great. Thanks for your insight!

  3. Rachel says

    July 19, 2017 at 5:43 pm

    I love the pencil pick up game! What song were you playing? It’s perfect or the activity.

    • Amy SmithAmy Smith says

      July 20, 2017 at 1:23 am

      Thank you!! The song is from the Nutcracker ballet…. I think the dance of the sugarplum fairies maybe? Glad you liked it:)

  4. Ashley says

    January 10, 2021 at 3:08 pm

    Thank you for this! My almost 5 year old has a lot of trouble with pencil grip and he’s been working on it with OT but right now OT is virtual and it’s been a struggle for him to understand how to pick up the pencil. I think your method might be just what he needs to help him figure it out. Thank you so much!

Welcome to Kids Play Smarter

Amy Smith I am an occupational therapist with over 10 years of experience working with children. I created this website to offer parents, teachers, and therapists FREE ideas, strategies, and activities that they can do with their children to improve their fine and gross motor skills, handwriting, academic learning, and regulate their sensory system all while "playing" (just playing smarter)! Read More…

Top Posts

Joint Compressions for Calming
How to Keep Writing on the Lines
Calming "Cookie Dough"
Why Teachers Should Never Take Away Recess

Copyright © 2023 · Lifestyle Pro Theme on Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in

 

Loading Comments...